My favourite fairytale is Cinderella…the hope it gives is the most realistic. You cannot be a princess on a ball for the whole of your life, you can only get out there, enjoy the magic and then go back to where your real life is…I found this happening all the time around me…I like the character…she doesn’t really fit for modern society, she is not ambitious, nor is she selfish, she just does what she does best…and she dreams. Some may say pheewww she’s not that inspiring at all for she doesn’t pursue her dream…yes she doesn’t, she protects it within her heart and never stops dreaming……but don’t you find it to be a sad truth of reality too that the prince could only fall in love with her when she was not her real self?...there is an old wisdom in there somewhere – it is impossible to be loved just for being you. You have to put a mask to get noticed...and what does it say about all those princes out there…*grins*
I usually don’t ask twice. I see it so that when one asks something at any particular moment, this would be the moment when they need it the most. When asked of something I try to respond right away if I can. It is not because I want to be considered a good friend. But because when it comes to me to ask, I only do it when I am truly in need, I treat others the same way. So when I ask and do not receive, I tend not to ask again. I ask and leave my ask in their hands…whatever they do with it, it is their own business… I don’t sulk either…They must’ve have a good reason for not being able or not willing. It is not pride as such. It is more of a habit not to rely on anybody if I can help it. When we ask and do not get, it might just be that we never needed it in the first place...
Was talking to a friend recently...how’s life?...have some issues of trust, what about you?..., oh, just few domestic issues, nothing much…oh, I’m so sorry for being selfish, of course your problems are immediate ones and more important then mine…well…I gave it a thought…there are never any domestic problem that can be more important then a problem within…whatever problem I might have, can be solved…if I can’t solve it myself, somebody else can do it for me. It usually is a known issue with known solutions. Easy as life. The internal problem we find within our mind are so much more complicated and so much more important. No one can solve them for you, you’ve got to deal with it, all by yourself and it is only you you can truly count on in this challenge. I’d say personal problems of a mind are much more important then any tangible problems of reality…
I usually don’t ask twice. I see it so that when one asks something at any particular moment, this would be the moment when they need it the most. When asked of something I try to respond right away if I can. It is not because I want to be considered a good friend. But because when it comes to me to ask, I only do it when I am truly in need, I treat others the same way. So when I ask and do not receive, I tend not to ask again. I ask and leave my ask in their hands…whatever they do with it, it is their own business… I don’t sulk either…They must’ve have a good reason for not being able or not willing. It is not pride as such. It is more of a habit not to rely on anybody if I can help it. When we ask and do not get, it might just be that we never needed it in the first place...
Was talking to a friend recently...how’s life?...have some issues of trust, what about you?..., oh, just few domestic issues, nothing much…oh, I’m so sorry for being selfish, of course your problems are immediate ones and more important then mine…well…I gave it a thought…there are never any domestic problem that can be more important then a problem within…whatever problem I might have, can be solved…if I can’t solve it myself, somebody else can do it for me. It usually is a known issue with known solutions. Easy as life. The internal problem we find within our mind are so much more complicated and so much more important. No one can solve them for you, you’ve got to deal with it, all by yourself and it is only you you can truly count on in this challenge. I’d say personal problems of a mind are much more important then any tangible problems of reality…