As many of you have noticed, the friends only system here has been borked since the server move.
Having checked the code I'm entirely unsure how ANY of the site was working... But that's another issue altogether!
I believe I have fixed the issue, and much of what wasn't working should now be working... If you find aspects of the old site (ie, this one you're reading on) that aren't working, please do let me know!
Sorry for the inconvenience,
Steve