Parody Diaries and Equality.
Fri Mar 02 2001

Since the comments left on the last entry basically amount to the same question, (ie do subscribers get privileges to write more offensive stuff than non subscribers), the answer is no. If someone has problems with the content of ANY diary then the [email protected] is the address to write to and we will look into it.

Regarding NastyNick's diary, the ONLY complaint we've had was not about Nicks diary but about a comment left on it. Comments are outside of Nicks control, except to delete them, or not allow them at all in the first place. Perhaps thats the choice he'll have to make before long... So, regardless of who the diary is aimed at (reference the Hammie (?) or Viivi comment) the administration of DearDiary (me and Matt) simply don't have time to read everyone's entries and make sure they are politically correct. IF someone complains, then we will go take a look. To date, the only complaint about Nicks diary has been that of the comments being left... A new comment system is being planned that will address this issue...

So. If people have issues about diaries, particularly when complaining about them being 'fiscally condoned' (they are not) perhaps they could have the decency to let US know of their displeasure so that we can go and look. If people wish to accuse us of bias due to the subscription methods, perhaps they should actually investigate the situation first. The subscription screen clearly states that subscribing does not offer you any extra benefit with regard to what you can write and I quote;

Subscription does not alter, in any way, your agreement to abide by the terms and conditions in place for each individual web site operated by AtomIC Systems. In the event of a breach of the terms and conditions by you, which results in your removal from the system, your subscription fee will not be refunded. We should point out that removal from the system is always a last resort anyway!

Or, in other words, the content of a diary abides by the same rules as everyone elses regardless of whether or not someone pays. And I reiterate that the deardiary administration has a policy of non interference. Unless someone complains we will not go looking. Those who are complaining now in comments and backbiting are the very same people that also complain the loudest if we take away their freedom of speech and go checking up on peoples diaries just for the heck of it.

And to answer Cristens comment, YES we do need money. You think running a server and looking after all these children happens for free? What a lovely little world it would be where everyone had everything they wanted and it didn't cost anything.

*sigh*

To answer Danielle's questions, the official stance on parody diaries is that if thats what floats your boat and you have nothing better to do with your time then go ahead. Whether thats about me, Hammie(?) or Viivi, Matt or President bloody Bush. However, IF you identify the people concerned, and IF those people complain (or anyone complains) then we'll look in to it. Comments, or entries involving incitement to cause harm to others, or of a racial or minority nature are not tolerated and never have been, but again unless someone takes the time to let us know, we won't know and won't fix it! We are not mind readers and we're not walking the system every day looking for trouble. If you'd like us to moderate your own diary to check the posts that you put out before you post them, please send us at least £10 per entry to cover our costs and time and we'll certainly then oblige.

I refer anyone interested in this issue to Our FAQ as this issue comes up again and again. Also you might like to check This Section of the FAQ as well. And I reiterate that subscription as a premium member alters NOTHING in this respect.

Interesting isn't it? NastyNick has been writing the same kind of entries since January. Subscriptions came in last weekend, some 4 weeks later, but suddenly Nicks diary is now a fiscally condoned one?

10 Comments
  • From:
    David (TIme Traveler) (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 02 2001
    If I send $10 and entry, can someone just proof read them for typos? Im ok with my content, but wow, look at the typos.

    LOL

    On second thought, as bad as I type, Ill just send a large retainer fee.

    Your Friend,

    D

  • From:
    Steve (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 02 2001
    Incidentally, to put all that in perspective, the user subscription is $25 a year. What comes out of our pockets is $4800 a year at present. We get $40 a month in advert banners, but thats dropping almost every day, even though the hits to the server are going up.

    So purely financially we're $4320 a year down. You might understand therefore why we DO need money... Thats more per year than some people pay in taxes!

  • From:
    Zarathustra (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 02 2001
    i am absolutely fine with Nick parodising other diaries:
    however you gentlemen should agree that re-writing my comment in his diary in an absolutely stupid and unacceptable manner and using MY name to sigh the re-written comment deserves some harsh counter-actions.

    but i appreciate your efforts in DD.
    i would gladly subsribe to the new service,
    but right now i dont enjoy the opportunity to.

    and of course,
    the presense of such fellows like nick makes me hesitate whether i really should subscribe.

    many thanks,
    za

  • From:
    Shellybien (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 02 2001
    I'm happy with DD, the thing with Nick and others is this. I left my opinion, and he read it. I'm not going to keep going there so he will get Hits and go back into the Top10. I left this same comment in Za's DD. If you leave a crusty, disguting scab alone, and don't pick at it, IT will go away.

    Thanks for taking care of my ibill problem so quickly!

  • From:
    Just an avg Guy : ) (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 02 2001
    I couldn't agree more! As far as the subscriptions go, I know, as a diarist, you guys have never asked us to subscribe, even though we are the ones who use the site.....A LOT!!

    As far as fighting to " win ", I've stated over and over again about the fact that you can not and will not win a "fight" on the internet. Its like trying to catch the beam of a flashlight.

    To anyone who reads this......" can't we all just get along?" Its called, agreeing to disagree. A very civilized way of life.

  • From:
    Paul (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 02 2001
    I am not a diarist but I'm gonna subscribe for my own reasons.

    :)

  • From:
    Jamisinc (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 02 2001
    We all have a tendency to complain when we are unhappy and keep quiet when we are happy. So you guys probably get much more negative email than positive. I, for one, love this site. And I appreciate all the hard work y'all do.
    Jami
  • From:
    Mamacita (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 03 2001
    I also love this site, and will be putting my money where my ALWAYS ACTIVELY-YAPPING mouth is soon.


    I also dislike and disapprove of the parodies, but they are easy enough to avoid--I just don't click 'em (or "pick 'em" to put it in Shellybien's "crusty scab" terms, LOL!).

    All the best to you,

    MCP

  • From:
    Starcrossed (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 03 2001
    I love DD, what more can I say? You all have done me a favor, I'm even losing weight since I started writing! LOL. I think all the stress I was carrying with my job made me eat more. Now my stress is put in writing and I don't eat as much! DD is the best diet aid I've ever had! Thank you for the many hours you've put into this site.
  • From:
    Mr W (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 10 2001
    I came to this site to help someone out. This sort of worked in two ways. She is now fine and i am in a site i enjoy.

    You will always get the bickering, it's called life.

    I think you should put a link to the mIRC site on the front page as i have sat there for an hour and no-one comes in.

    Don't get offended by my sign off now will you!

    Mr "Fucking" Whimsical