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Wed Aug 31 2005

OK, back to the program. I forgot to mention about previous, first series, that what they were trying to prove by experiments, was that the nature of sexual arousal is basically the same for men and women. We do get turned on by similar factors mainly…only for men physical arousal will be enough to justify the action, but for women, apparently, something else needed…and our ability to control our body is truly amazing. The experiments showed that despite of obvious signs of physical arousal during stimulation, most women would not demonstrate mental readiness or shall we say - willingness to get together with suggested partner, in fact, they more likely to reject them, if their brains won’t get excited, even if vagina will.

Yesterday’s series was about how women choose the partner, how natural instincts work in selection process without us realising it. This is fascinating that our bodies and our mind could react differently to the same possible partner…How good you’ve been at anatomy at school? Remember: female species in a flock will always pick up the most reproductive partner? That’s the basic reaction of our body. Instincts are still there to help in selection process. In experiment on that program 8 girls were supposed to rate few men without actually meeting them, based on three senses: tactile – by touching the hand behind the curtain they were to choose the most sexy one. Senses of smell –all of the men have been wearing t-shirts for two days. No smoking, drinking, having sex, etc…so it was just their own odour on the t-shirts, that poor girls got to sniff (ugh!) the last test was – guys have been asked to make few movements behind the screen, where girls could only see their black silhouettes…and again – give their personal rating of sexuality for each…so based on the natural drive, the girls demonstrated amazingly similar results – their ratings have been very close in selection of guys – the most sexy guys happened to be the ones with the highest level of testosterone (this has been measured before the program) Testosterone is the most important representative of the male sex hormones, responsible for such things as sex drive, and the production of sperm cells, the important factors in reproductive function…It was pretty amazing to see how without knowing who’s hand they touch, who’s shirt they smelled, who’s dance they watched, women’s choice was almost unanimous and completely coincided with the results of testosterone test.

I don’t really get it…they touch the hand…I’m trying to imagine doing this…nah…I don’t recall if I ever heard of women discussing men’s hands…the most you could get just a comment about “his big arms”…I don’t know how I would base my ratings in this situation…I don’t think I will care much about the size…perhaps, temperature, moisture, roughness…I don’t know…smell…here I agree that smell can attract or turn away, so I suppose, it would be pretty easy to make a choice based on the odour…movements…nah, wouldn’t do anything for me…I’ve got to see his eyes…how he walks…who cares…how he look at you tells million secrets…But that seems to be in another area…in a wild nature female will never fall for “pretty eyes”…Just proves that in human species there is much more to it then body chemistry…I wonder if there could be a mirrored situation: we make our choice based entirely on the “brain judgement”, without seeing, listening, smelling, touching?...and what would happenned if male and female change places in the similar experiments?

well, I wrote too much for one day…although the topic intrigues me, I would rather wait until next part of this 4-series program and will report back if they’ll show anything worth reporting…:-)

3 Comments
  • From:
    Kordelle (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Aug 31 2005
    hi Lana just lingering somewhat in dd land

    thankyou for your wonderful comment it is both poetical and philosophical I love that about smelling colours everything is waves of the heart mind and the world

    about this post it leads me to think of the idea that the familly unit as a socializing agent is disintegrating in this culture the majority of families are single parents some day there will be a new socializing agent
    oh my god Lana how would you feel about being in a harem ha ha

    well see you like I said towards the end of next month thanks for all your beautiful inspiration
  • From:
    Pragmatist (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Sep 01 2005
    By all means, keep writing. Woman to woman, this is an interesting subject.

    It has been said that sexual desire/attraction is all in the brain.

    Shalom
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Sep 02 2005
    Interesting.
    I have watched the girls go after my GS .. mostly his eyes are really captivating.. I have known that since he was a baby. Since he grew to be a man, he has really got quite a following. I wonder where his testosterone level is at??
    As for me. I usually feel a spark.. it is almost electric, between the man and myself. Then I know.. We are gonna have something special.. The longer I draw that out the better it seems to get..
    Kind of kinky.. I guess
    Oh you didn't' want that kind of comment..
    Yikes.
    Have a lovely weekend
    PeG