Sometimes a thought occurs this way…you’d think of something and arrive to the point when you really like the thought and consider her to have a deep meaning…and you leave her at that, having decide there is nothing more to it. She is complete and perfect. And only afterwards, unprepared, you suddenly find yourself thinking of the same again, refining the meaning more, far away from perfection still…unsatisfaction forces us to go over the same again and again, mule the single thought in all ways possible, until we find another expression to her…better to our eyes…and yet it is not completed…and it will never be…and I think, this is because we learned not to trust our own judgment on correctness of our ideas. We have to run them over by others so that we can either gain that certainty or see with the other’s help where we’ve made mistake in judgements …
ok, long intro, but I felt I needed to print it out loud mostly to convince myself that what I say now is not a mind changing, but different take on the same thought…
It is never a simple question if one trusts another. There are different levels of trust between humans.
Trust to let another know of the intimate details of your life
Trust to let them see you in the morning hairdo, with no make up and prominent imprint of the pillow on your cheek
Trust to show them your wrinkles and tell them how much you weight
Trust to let them see your red eyes and puffed face from crying and in your silly moments, even if it was them who made you cry or put you in embarassing situation
Trust to share yours or somebody else’s secrets
Trust to share your very sacred thoughts
Trust to share your daring dreams
Trust to let them be aware of what they mean to you.
Any trust means to give away something. To make yourself vulnerable. When although you don’t know what they going to do with the entrusted to them, you still sure they will not use it against you or for their own benefits. You TRUST IN THEIR LOYALTY. Does it need to be mutual trust? Not necessary. Trust is very personal emotion. We trust different people on different level and for each relationship we find the level of trust required for the balance…to think of it…how many couples can say there is complete trust between them? Yet they can be a very happy couple. How many friends can feel totally secure yet there are things they never share with each other. And if you’d take lovers, there is even less they might feel the need in sharing…the level of trust depends on the level of needs…and this calls for the question:
What level of trust you think is the most complete? What makes us the most vulnerable to another? Which trust is the most difficult to gain?
ok, long intro, but I felt I needed to print it out loud mostly to convince myself that what I say now is not a mind changing, but different take on the same thought…
It is never a simple question if one trusts another. There are different levels of trust between humans.
Trust to let another know of the intimate details of your life
Trust to let them see you in the morning hairdo, with no make up and prominent imprint of the pillow on your cheek
Trust to show them your wrinkles and tell them how much you weight
Trust to let them see your red eyes and puffed face from crying and in your silly moments, even if it was them who made you cry or put you in embarassing situation
Trust to share yours or somebody else’s secrets
Trust to share your very sacred thoughts
Trust to share your daring dreams
Trust to let them be aware of what they mean to you.
Any trust means to give away something. To make yourself vulnerable. When although you don’t know what they going to do with the entrusted to them, you still sure they will not use it against you or for their own benefits. You TRUST IN THEIR LOYALTY. Does it need to be mutual trust? Not necessary. Trust is very personal emotion. We trust different people on different level and for each relationship we find the level of trust required for the balance…to think of it…how many couples can say there is complete trust between them? Yet they can be a very happy couple. How many friends can feel totally secure yet there are things they never share with each other. And if you’d take lovers, there is even less they might feel the need in sharing…the level of trust depends on the level of needs…and this calls for the question:
What level of trust you think is the most complete? What makes us the most vulnerable to another? Which trust is the most difficult to gain?