D'vorahDavida
Yetzirah

Dog Anxiety
Tue Dec 06 2005

Okay listen, this is it. If this doesn't work out, I really AM going to take a major break from looking for a dog. I mean it. I'm not kidding. That's final. 

I made another trip to the county shelter this morning to look at an Australian Shepherd I had seen on their web site. When I got there, I found her all right.... she was a BIG Aussie. Really big. And wary. And didn't look all that healthy either. We don't really want a large dog. It is hard to tell from the pictures they post how big the animals are. 

So I muddled along through the other kennels looking at lots of Pit Bulls and giant German Shepherds or teeny weeny yaplap dogs.... And then I saw this little girl:

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She came wiggling up to the fence and gave me the "let's play" sign, stuck her nose through the opening of the cage which I touched (I haven't touched one of the dogs yet, I was usually afraid to) and then she put her paw through the opening too. Well, I was smitten. This is the first dog I have seen there that I really had an affinity for. 

BUT. 

RIGHT before I asked to have our names put on her waiting list, another woman was signing up with the animal control person at the desk. She has young children and wants a companion dog for her other Border Collie. She was very excited because this one reminded her of the dog they had lost recently. So as it stands now, if the dog doesn't pass the "little kid, jump up and knock 'em over" test.... we are next in line. But if she doesn't pass the "cats are born to be chased" test, we don't get her either. 

We will know on Friday. Hub Man is going to stop by on his way home from work and take a look at her. 

And me.... well, I am trying to be philosophical about it. 

If the other people get her, she will certainly be in a more stimulating environment with little kids and a doggie pal. That might be better for her, because it can get pretty dull around our house, us being "old folks" and all. 

And if we don't get her either, I figure there is a really good cosmic reason for it. 

How's that for trying to be a mature adult about it? 

Only thing is there is a little girl way down deep inside me that is jumping up and down and having a nervous breakdown at the thought of having to let go of this one. 

(I'll give her a cookie in a minute.)

 Oy! the uncertainties of life!!!
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9 Comments
  • From:
    Pragmatist (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Dec 06 2005
    Que sera sera.

    But I hope you get her.

    Shalom

    PS: Hmmm. Maybe Hamlet could use a little "chase the kitty." Last I saw him, he was getting a little plump.
  • From:
    Allimom (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Dec 06 2005
    The only times I've known dogs to not view cats as their own personal chase and chew toys is when they are raised with them from puppies on up, or if you have a bitch that recently had a litter of pups and you introduce a kitten as the pups are starting to leave.
    Good luck, and I'll keep my fingers crossed for it.
    Alli
  • From:
    Dananarama (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Dec 06 2005
    I hope everything works out for you! :o)
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Dec 06 2005
    she is gorgeous ;)

    fingers crossed
  • From:
    Welshamethyst (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Dec 06 2005
    What a sweet face she has!! I hope you're able to add her to your family.

    Hugs
  • From:
    Kbabe (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Dec 07 2005
    Awe, she's adorable! I put a new sweater on our yap, I mean lap, dog this afternoon and he froze. Wouldn't budge...You'd thought I'd put a noose around his neck! He does the same thing with a leash and collar. He's just spoiled rotten! Good luck...
  • From:
    Kbabe (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Dec 07 2005
    ***giggles*** Trust me, no offense taken. I swore I'd never have a small dog. We'd always had large dogs, mostly malamutes over the years. My daughter brought Diego, the little Chihuahua I posted a pic of the other day, home about a year ago and my first reaction was, OH NO! As it turns out he's a great little guy. He has so much personality and has brought us all a lot of joy. The best part is that he isn't a little yapper! That's not to say, he doesn't ever do it but certainly not like a lot of small dogs do. I applaud you for going to your local animal humane association. There are so many animals that need loving homes.

    Have a wonderful day.

    K
  • From:
    Bookworm (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Dec 07 2005
    Oh no, how can you stand it? I hope she's yours, even if there's some cosmigorical reasons for everything or not. ;-)
  • From:
    ImNotLisa (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Dec 07 2005
    My fingers are crossed, which is going to make crocheting very difficult but worth it. Good luck!