D'vorahDavida
Yetzirah

Dogs Make Choices Too
Tue Feb 26 2013

Remember the mug shot of this character?   Ben Mug Shot   I cannot delve into all the details, because they are more painful than I can bear to list at the moment... The upshot of the entire unhappy drama is that I could no longer give Ben the safe home that he needed. Once he had been 'walkabout' enough times in the great wilderness of our place up here, it was all he could think about.  Every open door or off leash incident, resulted in  him being gone for various amounts of time, coming home with bloody feet and going far afield to the neighbors who have farm animals that he might disturb. Not to mention the mountain lion risk. In the Rescue contract that I signed when I adopted Ben, it states if for any reason you find yourself unable to provide a good home for him, he was to be returned. This my friends is what I did. They found him a home very quickly, because he is SUCH a good dog in every other way. Beautiful, kind, healthy, gets along with cats and other dogs, sweet, the best howler in the world… I could go on and on. BUT. He could not overcome his crazed desire to bolt. It's almost like he became a meth head. Here he is on his last day with us: Ben Gazing Longing to chase one of the gray squirrels into the wild blue yonder. I wish I could put him in rehab. He went to a home with two other dogs, and a secure back yard. It was a difficult day when the people came to get him. Though when the man of his new home said, after only knowing Ben for 15 minutes or so, declared that he had a nickname for Ben already. He was going to call him, Mr. Franklin. I knew then that things were going to be just fine for our Ben. Me? Not so much. Not yet anyway.    
6 Comments
  • From:
    FutureCat (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Feb 26 2013
    Oh no! Knowing how much comfort I'm getting from my cats at the moment, I can imagine how painful it must be for you to have to give up Ben. What a pity that he couldn't control his wanderlust (although I can understand his temptation to roam - whenever you post photos of the countryside around you, I want to leap through the computer screen and walk in it!)
  • From:
    Institches (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Feb 26 2013
    :( (((HUGS)))
  • From:
    Mamallama (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Feb 27 2013
    and more {{{{{HUGS}}}}}.
  • From:
    Misstick (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Feb 27 2013
    You did what was the best for HIM and that's what the most important. you that's what true friends do for each other - let them live their life to the best. Don't cry because you miss him, smile because you and him together have had some wonderful moments and that's how we remember our friends and they remember us. {hugs}
  • From:
    Dancing Star (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Feb 27 2013
    awww so sorry :( you know you have done the right thing but that doesn't make it hurt less. ((HUGS))
  • From:
    Maryjo (Legacy)
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    Thu Feb 28 2013
    I'm glad you were able to find a new home for him quickly. He must be a true "country boy dog" that other neighbors end up blaming for chickens missing and more. Sigh. couldn't have been easy to say goodbye though!